Relationship is a connection between two people, be it between people of the opposite or people of the same sex. Relationship can come in various ways. It can come in a form of friendship, marriage, colleagues. Women play a bigger role for a relationship to hold and here are a few mistakes women make which crumble their relationships.
You Don’t Know Your Own Value
Do not chase after the bad boys who treat you poorly and you only want them more. You should not be afraid to ask for what you want. Do you put up with nonsense expecting that “one day” it will magically change? If so, you, my dear, do not know your value, and no man can really respect a woman who will allow him to treat her so shabbily.
Allow Him To Shield You
The gift of the masculine sex is his ability to protect and provide. In fact, he takes great pride in it and will oftentimes even willingly risk his health or life in order to do that effectively. You take that away from him, then you are indirectly telling him that he is useless, so try not to be the ’knight’ in your relationship, let him worry about that.
Study And Understand Your Man
Women who understand how men work and appreciate them for their masculine gifts have a way of kissing frogs and turning them into princes. Likewise, women who are jaded-frustrated or have been burned too many times can kiss a good man and turn him into a frog. The fact is women are far more complex and men are fairly simple creatures who actually are pre-wired to want to serve you if only; you know how to inspire them.
You Are looking For A Man To “Complete” You When That Is Your Job.
Those who invest in themselves and do some personal development work have a huge advantage when it comes to attracting and keeping all the love they deserve. They’ve done the work to heal their wounds. They understand how to elegantly, effectively and efficiently connect with another human being. Like anything else in life, it all comes down to the right amount of preparation and perspiration to have what you want in life.
Believing It’s Your Man’s Job To Make You Happy.
Your partner is not there to meet all your needs. If he says no, it doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you. Some demands may be impossible to fulfill. It is not your man’s job to make you happy. Your partner should be here to grow and share with you. You must learn to make yourself happy, and make others happy as well. Love is based upon communicating, consideration and giving. First, however, you must be happy with yourself, before another can make you happy.
Not Respecting His Personal Space.
If he’s in a bad mood or doesn’t feel like talking, leave him alone and let it be. Most guys don’t like to talk about their issues the way women do. Instead, they prefer to pull back and work things out internally. Try not to be his mother at that point, be his woman.
You Create Drama Instead Of Memories
Men are relatively simple creatures who navigate the world via logic and reason. It just doesn’t make sense to them to be all worked up constantly. They love to prove their value by solving problems and making things easy. They tend to be laid back and easy going when they’re not working, and they also typically hate to waste effort if they can’t see a potential upside. That’s why masculine energy quickly tires of the drama that arises when femininity gets caught up in emotion and upset. Just be aware that if you kind of like the attention you get when you stir things up, it just might turn into a very short-term gain.
So my women the POWER is in your hands